So today I put forward a proposal to my company. Here is what it said: I would like to work less, be paid more for each hour I work and I’d like to do all those hours from home.
Here’s what they said. You want WHAT? I explained again that I wanted more money (because I wasn’t being currently compensated appropriately for the caliber of my work), I wanted to work fewer hours (so I could have the flexibility to be with my kids more) AND I wanted to do all of this remotely (home or while traveling with my husband and kids).
For days I’d imagined this moment and kept thinking that they would look at me with an expression that said that “you have SOME NERVE making these demands!”
But instead, they said OK. They thought we could work it out.
What? I was confused. No resistance? NO challenge on the money part? I was almost hoping for some pushback so I could do my speech about my worth in the market, my years of loyalty, my commitment…you know, I am a woman, hear me roar!
So now, starting September 1, I will be working from home…I just wish I knew what that meant exactly.
When you are young and just starting out, sometimes it can be a bit challenging (or overwhelming) to decide which career path to focus on. Choosing a career path can make a big impact on what type of job you might be able to find and qualify for right out of college. With that in mind, you need to make sure that this career choice is something you enjoy and feels right for your future. There is certainly a lot of planning that goes into a decision of this magnitude. Here is some helpful guidance that may assist in that decision-making process.
The first step is to really spend some time considering what is most important to you. This involves asking yourself a number of questions. For example, what types of things do you enjoy? Are there any hobbies you find interesting? What kind of potential job choices would make you happy to attend every day? Are you interested art, drawing, creativeness or animation? Are you more left brain or right brain oriented?
A Math Teacher’s Love and Patience Adds Up. I’ve learned that people come into your life for many reasons. God uses people for a specific purpose. Many times that purpose is not revealed for years to come. Reflecting back on my adolescent years, I realized that God placed an extraordinary woman in my life, my mathematics teacher Mrs. Williams.
By sharing her love and wisdom, she has played a part in the woman I’ve become. She is a reason I have so much appreciation for education and my volunteer efforts are always directed towards helping other students ( recently I got involved in online support for students preparing for the ACT test)
I struggled with math. I dreaded the fact that I had to face this truth every single day. I would think to myself, “If only I could be like the other students who were excited to raise their hands and answer the problem. Am I stupid? Will I ever learn how to do this?” I was shy and timid as a child, afraid to draw attention to myself; letting all the kids think that I wasn’t as good as they were. However, I couldn’t hide from Mrs. Williams. She could see right through me; a little girl who was fearful and struggling inside.
The key to her gift of teaching was not technical applications; it was her mastery of patience and encouragement, as well as the wisdom she shared from her life. Refusing to be bound by subjects and methods, Mrs. Williams not only taught mathematics, but she also individually taught the child. I remember times when we would sit for hours in a day perfecting different ways to accomplish one math problem.
Have you ever compared your child to another child? I’m sure you did. Even if you were just checking some age milestones to pass, you were comparing your kid to what´s expected in his or her age development.
But how about comparing your child to some friend´s child, have you done that? You probably did, and that’s normal for all parents to do, I say it’s unavoidable. Even if it´s just in your mind, you might think, “Oh that kid is potty trained already and mine keeps on diapers till now…”
While you are only thinking about it and not saying anything to your child, that’s ok, it´s a way to keep track on the developments achieved. Specifically if you are analyzing your kids´ body development. I mean, it’s ok to expect your child stop wetting the bed, start taking a shower on her own and etc. The problem is when you compare your child to another child in a behavior way and that can be really toxic to a little mind.
Nothing will get your tweets blocked faster than spamming the Twitter feeds of your followers. No matter how useful, amazing or life-changing you think a product is,
Twitter is not the place to shout it from the rooftops, especially when that shouting is relentless. Instead, affiliate marketing on Twitter needs to be subtle and natural. Here’s a list of do’s and don’ts to help you navigate the fine line between being a friendly marketer and an annoying spammer.
Build relationships that promote mutual sharing of information.
Link to blog posts that are relevant to your affiliate offers.
Create Twitter lists based on interests.
Be transparent about the material you’re linking to.
Provide useful and engaging content.
Tweet and retweet content from others that your followers would be interested in.
I’ve been going at this site the entire day. Updating to the new wordpress, changing the layout and installing plug-ins left and right. I love the New WordPress, but I blame it for using up all my time today. Or should I just blame myself for sitting here.
Mr. WordPress sure didn’t glue me to my seat, I did. *tsk tsk tsk* I hate myself for not even starting on that term paper that’s due Thursday, led a long that book review. You know what, I won’t even talk about it, I’ve mentioned enough to you guys about my school work that’s not getting done. Let’s move on to something a bit more… different?
So, this layout. The coloring for the header is off in Internet Explorer but… It’s Definitely different. A different style, and it’s.. “less.” What I mean by that is usually I’ve got a bagillion things on my header and sidebar, but I’m trying to minimize things a bit. This style is so out of my norm that I decided I’d try it.
When I made it I got inspired by the Renaissance, surprisingly. I don’t know what made me think of the Renaissance, but when I seen that I had a medieval-type font, I went at it. Very few brushes were used since Photoshop decided to just go ahead and delete all of my brushes! I was upset, but I guess I can go on a hunt for new ones anyway.
It’s the number one bitch-session complaint online: “I do everything I’m supposed to do. I write blog posts, I’m on Twitter, I’m on Facebook, I’m doing everything I’m told, but I’m still not making any money online. What am I doing wrong?”
Sound familiar? You’re busting your ass for a whole lot of nothing while other people online seem to breeze by with no effort at all and lots of cash in their pockets. It’s a pain in the ass, sure, but let me ask you something:
ARE YOU REALLY WORTH PAYING FOR?
I’m not asking if you’re an expert in your field. I’m asking if what you DO for your customers, your readers and followers right now is worth paying for. If your answer is “maybe,” this is an uncomfortable question.
HOW TO HANDLE THE HATERS
When it comes to handling haters and critics, my old theater professor gave me the best advice:
“Sometimes you just have to smile and out-class the bastard.”
Best. Advice. Ever. When it comes to flamers and haters online (or, hell, real life for that matter) the best strategy is no strategy at all. Chances are good that if their comments sound stupid to you, they sound stupid to the other readers and listeners too.
If you are anything like me you don’t always manage your time to the best of your abilities. Countless times you lose your focus without even realizing it. You would be far more productive spending less time working, but getting more done within that time frame.
I could spend hours taking all sorts of career, personality quizzes like this one. I found this great website and it is my favorite “time killing” activity right now. Who doesn’t want to know the best career, right? So I wanted to be more productive and have time for things I really like.
By increasing your productivity you are freeing yourself up to do more of the activities you enjoy.
No one wants to work 24/7 only to get half as much done as someone who works less than half the time. I have put together the ultimate guide to skyrocket productivity. Follow this guide and you will have more time to do the things you love.
A couple of days ago, I was asked by a broker and realtor to come and work with them if I wanted. I hesitated, hemmed and hawed, but it just stayed in the back of my mind. I’m not unacquainted with the industry, since both my parents and my grandparents have been agents at one time, but I didn’t like what was going on in the bubble and stayed away.
This is the second step in our series on creating your life. Last time we visualized the life we want. But next, how do you get there? How do you make that life happen? It may seem trivial but the next step is setting goals. Think about what you visualized. Fill in the following blanks:
In my ideal life I live in ______________. (Answers may include a house, an urban setting, on a farm, all dependent on what you visualized.)
In my ideal life I work _______________. (Answers may include the type of job you were doing, the hours you were putting in, or even the location, such as I work in an office, I work from home, I work no more than 25 hours a week.)
In my ideal life I have specific people around me. They are _________________. (A family, children, friends, my dog, whatever you see.)
In my ideal life I choose to spend my time _________________. (If you had unlimited time and resources, what are you doing in your perfect life?)
If you answered these questions, you just set goals. Goal-setting is not complicated, it’s just the process of seeing what you want, and committing to make it a reality.
When I was in the third grade one of the class parents was going to school to be some sort of child therapist and spoke to us about setting goals and the importance of visualization. She guided us through some exercises to help us determine the life we wanted to live so we could set goals that would have the desired end result.
Even though it was long ago, I can still see the pictures in my mind like it was yesterday. I visualized myself pulling up a long road on to a larger property with an averaged size home. My child was playing with the animals outside and I walked in the door to see my husband cooking.
I set down my bag, gave him a hug, jumped right in and helped him. I’m amazed that at such a young age I knew the importance of a deep farmhouse sink. We talked about our days, set the food out on a large picnic table outside and watched as our friends and family came driving up for a great summer dinner.
Some things have changed in my mind. My husband looks like my husband and not Christopher Reeves, and I’d rather be driving a Volkswagen Golf TDI than my childhood dream car of a Porsche 911. And sadly, when I think about the friends and family coming over to eat, my Dad who passed away is no longer among them. But the reality has not changed that much. Through visualization I learned: